The reason, you are not confident with your choice now. Then, what should be done? If the marriage should be void, if after these events, you can return to normal life as before?
Before you say what you feel to prospective husband and family, you should do the mature consideration. So you can steadily continue option.
True to yourself
-Try to ask yourself whether you feel these doubts simply because not ready for marriage or already do not love the couple again. Not ready to not love it quite differently. If the reason was not ready, you can postpone the wedding. And there is the possibility of the prospective groom also support your reasons.
But, if you are sure do not love her anymore, your future husband is in shock and immediately cancel this wedding. Therefore, you should be ready with all the possibilities.
Do not be selfish
Consider also the prospective husband and family. Canceling a wedding is not as easy as turning the hand. Especially if some of the costs are borne by parents. That means the good name at stake. But on the other hand, if the marriage can still be forwarded too risky. Well, think carefully what you want to do. If you are feeling says do not want to continue this marriage, so do it!
- Create Priority Scale
If the day is in sight, you'll want to make some sort of what priorities should be canceled first. If the invitation has been distributed, the problem gave the announcement that the marriage null and void is number one. You can make a wedding cancellation ads in newspapers, or you can ask for help from family to let every invitation. After that you can cancel the building, catering, wedding decorations and wedding makeup.
- Pour your feelings
Share what you feel with the people closest. You do need a team of encouragement. If you want to consult with more experts would be even better. But, the most efficacious drug is share with people you care about, like friends. If necessary, you can also consult a psychiatrist.
- Self Introspection
If canceled married, now you are a woman 'new'. Do not get discouraged and blame it all on yourself. This is the time to better understand yourself more deeply. Make that past experience as a lesson to undergo open communication. Start by trying to always be true to yourself. If you do not feel comfortable or awkward about something, should be noted, can automatically reduce the doubt in the future.
