When deciding a divorce, affairs are not just separated. Typically, the divorce court's decision requires that parents (especially the father's side) to provide financial support for children and former wives. But, in practice not a few ex-husbands who neglect this obligation. So, what to do for ex-husband would share the cost for children?
If divorce ends well, compromise and personal approach can be done to solve this problem. However, if the divorce ended worse, would be difficult for a wife or mother and children together to discuss this with ex-husband.
Therefore, before the 'fight', you should have a preparation, among others:
- Discuss child support before deciding to divorce. Make a deal before undergoing divorce trial. Besides not wasting time, this method also could make the ex-husband better understand the needs of children.
- Dispose of egos, and think about the interests of children.
- Describe the need for child support in detail, despite the ex-husband will give or not. At least, based on the decision letter, you have proof, so that when questioned in the future, not picking on you.
- When making the content of allowances, do not just think about the monthly fee for this moment. Also taking into account their future by asking the education or health insurance.
- Do not rely 100% on the ex-husband. Before really 'escape' from the husband, you should already have their own income. The trouble is if you're not working. You have to find a job
