In the first months of marriage, husband and wife sex drive is generally still passionate. Proverbial, every day is a honeymoon period. But, with age of marriage, frequency of sex also decreased.
The problem is, if one still has the same spirit with the honeymoon, while her partner is 'surrender'. So, if the husband turned 'cold' in bed, what to watch out for?
Stress at work
The husband who is in the 'high voltage' - very emotional because it's so stressful - the behavior and his face was clearly visible. Let alone smile, talk alone will not. Night only just got angry.
Get rid of the thought that you could not draw again in his eyes, or she had an affair. Too many things that occurred to his mind, so sex is no longer a priority.
Must make an important presentation to get a big project, think of household expenditure is increasingly bloated, not to mention there are men who are not disciplined. All the things that can disrupt the focus of attention. So the desire to make love not even had time to stop in his mind.
Solution:
Overcoming stress that overlap is not easy. You are required to be patient to face her husband. It sounds cliché, but your understanding and patience is the key factor to help her husband regardless of his personal problems.
Stimulate him to want to tell his problems. Not sure you could find a way out, but at least you reduce the burden on his shoulders by being a good listener. Both were able to chat, really, to resolve the issue. With a relaxed and not emotion.
Try to 'save' husband out of the trap routine and busyness. Make a second honeymoon and build a romantic atmosphere. Occasionally, take the husband to enjoy a romantic dinner at a place you've never visited before.
Disease
To engage in sexual activities necessary physical readiness. There are a number of diseases that can cause so passionate husband disappeared. For example, liver, diabetes, or kidney that make the hormone testosterone, the hormone triggers passionate sex on a man's body, so declined. Finally, the condition is so disturbed beds
Solution:
If a husband suffering from a disease, the only way to immediately consult a doctor for not protracted. Perhaps it is time also, my husband met sexologists, because who knew her husband had sexual dysfunction, such as premature ejaculation.
When her husband was experiencing sexual dysfunction, usually he's so lazy sex with wife for fear of disappointing. Unable to satisfy his wife so the husband's responsibility to increase the weight, so the higher the stress level. As a result, there is no spark passion even though the wife may appear sexy.
Excessive fatigue
When her husband began to complain of sore shoulders or waist like going broke, you must be good at translating the complaint as a warning that his body was very tired. That is, physically, my husband was tired, so the lackluster sexual activity, let alone enjoy it.
Solution:
If the problem is, you try to make him comfortable and relaxed after work. When greeted, not hurt you to dress up. Because, when you greet him with the appearance of wearing a shirt, shorts plus battered, may actually make a lazy husband greet you, and go to sleep.
Therefore, make him feel comfortable. Prepare hot tea. When you need to prepare hot water for her bath. When the husband feel refreshed, please send signals naughty.
